RESPECT THE ENVIRONMENT OF OTHERS
When you are a guest in someone's home or natural environment, it's crucial to exhibit respectful behavior and understand that you are in unfamiliar territory. If you sense that the environment may be hostile towards you, it may be wise to avoid it. For example, a church may not be a welcoming environment for a Satanist, so it's unwise to go there and cause disrespect or engage in debates about beliefs.
I frequently deliver talks on Satanism. However, prior to confirming any engagement, I evaluate the venue and its ambiance meticulously. Essential considerations include understanding the audience's mindset and discerning the genuine purpose of the invitation. Key questions like, "Are these people genuinely interested in learning about Satanism or are they just looking for an opportunity to insult me?" These are important factors that should not be overlooked.
Additionally, if you need to have a crucial or sensitive conversation with someone, it's advisable to choose a familiar environment. By doing so, you increase your chances of emerging victorious.
BE DISCRET
When faced with challenges, it's easy to confide in the wrong individual — someone who might not have your best interests at heart or who might be listening merely out of politeness or curiosity. Sharing with such individuals can leave you vulnerable, revealing personal and intimate details without any gain. Worse still, they might spread what you've shared, amplifying the damage.
Therefore, it's vital to choose your words wisely, particularly in public settings. Always gauge the situation and the person you're conversing with, refraining from sharing anything potentially damaging or inappropriate. If in doubt, it's always better to stay silent. Often, silence is the most prudent response.
Exercise caution when discussing personal issues. No matter how pressing the situation, or the urge to share, always assess the trustworthiness of your confidante to prevent exacerbating an already delicate situation. This caution should also extend to how you talk to and about yourself. Avoid negative affirmations like "I can't," "I won't succeed," "I'm a failure," or "I have bad luck." Words wield power, and negative speech can draw negative outcomes.
DO NOT ACT IMPULSIVELY
In certain situations, when you see someone in trouble, it's essential to tread carefully. Avoid acting impulsively to help unless they explicitly ask for your assistance. Even then, be wise and analyze the situation before making any move.
There are instances where, after extending a hand to a friend or someone you barely know, you might feel disheartened by their lack of appreciation for your efforts. Moreover, such actions can inadvertently make you the target of hostility. Before diving into another person's issues, assess the situation to decide if involvement is prudent. If you still feel compelled to help, initiate a dialogue with the person in question to ascertain if they genuinely desire and need your assistance. Guarding against potential disappointments, particularly stemming from ingratitude, is essential, as it can lead to significant emotional distress. Therefore, always make informed choices.
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